Services for Adults

Rose Hill Counseling & Psychotherapy
One place for you, your children and your family--located in the heart of Charlottesville

Services for Adults

Services available for adults include:

  • Individual therapy
  • Couples therapy
  • Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction
  • Coaching and consultations

Adults come to Rose Hill Counseling and Psychotherapy for a range of issues including but not necessarily limited to:

  • Relationship problems
  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Post-partum depression
  • Emotional instability
  • Grief or loss
  • Assistance with personal growth

Individual Therapy

In psychotherapy with adults we work with inner experience and outer circumstances.  We work towards change and symptom relief by seeking to understand feelings and meanings which underlie symptoms. Progress and change is achieved through regular meetings and in the context of a collaborative relationship between therapist and client.  Sometimes medication may be recommended to help with symptom relief. If you and your therapist think that medication might be helpful, you will be referred to a psychiatrist for a medication evaluation and medication management.

Couples Therapy

The work of Couples Therapy involves each member of the couple considering what might be going on within him or herself that could be contributing to conflict in their relationship. Couples seek help for a variety of reasons:

  • Current circumstances have led to conflict and unhappiness.
  • Patterns from the couples’ family of origin are negatively influencing the relationship.
  • Life events have changed the original working model for the relationship.
  • Developmental changes have influenced the ability of the couple to sort out their difficulties. Developmental changes might include a new baby, an empty nest, or child-rearing conflicts.

The goal of the therapy process is to lead couples to better appreciate what each is bringing to the relationship and, in so doing, to relate to one another with improved understanding and love.

Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction

Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) is about reducing one’s suffering. This reduction of suffering is accomplished through awareness – awareness of sensations in the body and thoughts in the mind – and by letting go of resistance to what already is.

Suffering is caused by resistance to one’s experience in the present moment – wanting things to be different than they are. The poet Robert Frost said, “Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional.” This applies to both physical and emotional pain. By resisting emotional pain, one increases suffering.

Through mindfulness, one can be aware of the physical sensations and the mental thoughts that comprise painful emotions (sadness, grief, fear, anger, jealousy, shame). This awareness reveals the sensations and thoughts to be unpleasant but bearable and not worth the suffering caused by frantically trying to get rid of these feelings or by denying their existence in the present moment.

Mindfulness is not about apathy or resignation. Resistance to one’s experience makes it very difficult to change that experience. Awareness and acceptance of things as they are in the present moment allows for healing and change.

Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction is valuable on its own or as part of counseling or psychotherapy. It has been found to be helpful for a wide range of conditions including anxiety, depression, chronic fatigue, heart disease, headaches, sleep disturbances, and gastrointestinal distress.

Coaching and Consultation

Coaching is available for individuals looking for support through life and career transitions or who are looking for consultation regarding work-related challenges and stresses. Coaching may address specific personal projects, work-life balance, job performance and satisfaction, or general conditions in the client’s life, business, or profession.

While there are some similarities between coaching and psychotherapy, they are different activities and it is important to understand the differences between them. Psychotherapy is a health care service and is often reimbursable through health insurance policies. This is not true for coaching. Both coaching and psychotherapy utilize knowledge of human development and behavior, motivation and behavioral change, and interactive counseling techniques. The major differences are in the goals, focus, and level of professional responsibility. The focus of coaching is personal and/or professional development and implementation of strategies to reach client-identified goals of enhanced performance and personal satisfaction. Personal life history and patterns of experience and behavior are included to the extent that they impact on the coaching goals.